Ngaya engqungqutheleni ngonyaka odlule; akuhlangene nesitayela, kodwa isikhulumi esiqavile sikhulume ngamahembe asemthethweni. Ukhulume ngamahembe amhlophe amele igunya lesikole esidala (amagama ami akuwona amazwi akhe, kodwa ngiyawakhumbula). Ngihlale ngicabanga kanjalo, kodwa wabuye wakhuluma ngamahembe anombala nanemithende kanye nabantu abawagqokayo. Angikhumbuli ukuthi wathini ngendlela izizukulwane ezahlukene ezibona ngayo izinto. Ungakwazi ukunikeza noma yimiphi imininingwane ngalokhu?
I-AI iyavuma ukuthi amahembe asemthethweni amadoda athambekele ekuboniseni ulwazi oluningi mayelana nowafakile. Hhayi kuphela umbala wehembe, kodwa futhi iphethini, indwangu, ukuthunga, ikhola kanye nesitayela sokugqoka. Lezi zakhi zisebenza ndawonye ukwenza isitatimende kumuntu ozigqokile, futhi kufanele zilingane nesimo sendawo ezungezile. Ake ngihlukanise isigaba ngasinye:
Umbala-Cishe kuzo zonke izimo, ukukhetha kombala okulondoloza kakhulu kumhlophe. Akusoze kwaba "okungalungile". Ngenxa yalokhu, amahembe amhlophe ngokuvamile avamise ukuphakamisa igunya lesikole esidala. Kulandelwa ihembe eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka elinemisebenzi eminingi; kodwa lapha, kukhona ushintsho olukhulu. Okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okukhanyayo kuyisiko elithulile, njengamablues amaningi aphakathi nendawo. Okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okumnyama akuhlelekile kakhulu futhi ngokuvamile kufanelekile njengezingubo zokuphola.
Noma kunjalo, amahembe amhlophe/izindlovu (kanye namahembe anemigqa emincane eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nomhlophe). Kuhlelwe ngokuhambisana ne-etiquette kukhona okupinki okukhanyayo, okuphuzi okuthambile kanye ne-lavender esanda kuthandwa. Noma kunjalo, kuyivelakancane ukubona amadoda amadala, aqinile egqoke noma yiziphi izingubo ezinsomi.
Abagqoki bemfashini abaningi, abancane nabangakahleleki bathanda ukwandisa ububanzi bemibala yabo ngokugqoka amahembe anemibala ehlukahlukene. Amahembe amnyama futhi agqamile awanhle kangako. Amahembe ampunga, a-tan, kanye ne-khaki angathathi hlangothi anomuzwa wokugqoka, futhi kungcono kakhulu ukugwema imfashini yebhizinisi nezingubo zomphakathi.
Amahembe anephethini anephethini ajwayelekile kakhulu kunamahembe anemibala eqinile. Phakathi kwawo wonke amaphethini ehembe lokugqoka, imivimbo ithandwa kakhulu. Imigqa emincane, ihembe eliyinkimbinkimbi futhi lendabuko. Imigqa ebanzi futhi ekhanyayo yenza ihembe libe yinto engavamile (isibonelo, imigqa ye-Bengal egqamile). Ngaphandle kwemivimbo, amaphethini amahembe amancane amahle ahlanganisa ama-tattersalls, amaphethini we-herringbone namaphethini ahloliwe. Amaphethini afana namachashazi e-polka, i-plaid enkulu, i-plaid nezimbali zaseHawaii afaneleka kuphela ama-sweatshirts. Acwebezela kakhulu futhi awafaneleki njengamahembe esudi yebhizinisi.
Indwangu-Ukukhethwa kwendwangu yehembe ngu-100% ukotini. Lapho ubona ukuthungwa kwendwangu, lapho kungavamile khona ukuhleleka. Izindwangu/imicu yehembe isukela kwenhle kakhulu-njengendwangu ebanzi ebushelelezi kanye nendwangu ecolekileyo ye-Oxford-kuya kwendwangu ye-Oxford engahlelekile kangako kanye nokweluka okuphuma ekupheleni-kuya kwe-cambray engavamile kakhulu Nedenim. Kodwa i-denim ilukhuni kakhulu ukuthi ingasetshenziswa njengehembe elisemthethweni, ngisho nakumuntu omncane, opholile.
Amahembe aphelele e-Tailoring-Brooks Brothers akudala asejwayelekile, kodwa manje aseseduze nesidala. Inguqulo yanamuhla isagcwele kancane, kodwa ayifani nepharashuthi. Amamodeli amancane nancane kakhulu ajwayelekile futhi esimanjemanje. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akubenzi bafanele iminyaka yawo wonke umuntu (noma bathandeke). Mayelana nama-cuffs aseFrance: anenhle kakhulu kune-barrel (inkinobho) cuffs. Nakuba wonke ama-French cuff shirts angamahembe asemthethweni, akuwona wonke amahembe asemthethweni anama-cuffs aseFrance. Yiqiniso, amahembe asemthethweni ahlala enemikhono emide.
Ikholomu-Lena cishe iyisici esihlukanisa kakhulu sokugqokayo. Amatafula okugqoka esitayela somdabu/sekolishi kakhulukazi (kuphela?) anethezekile ngamakholola enkinobho egoqiwe athambile. Laba ngabesilisa abasezikhungweni zemfundo ephakeme nezinye izinhlobo ze-Ivy League, kanye nabantu abadala. Izinsizwa eziningi kanye nabagqoki be-avant-garde bagqoka amakholomu aqondile kanye/noma amakholomu ahlukanisiwe isikhathi esiningi, anciphisa ukukhetha kwawo amakhola wezinkinobho ezimpahleni ezivamile zangempelasonto. Uma ikhola ibanzi, ibukeka iyinkimbinkimbi futhi inhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusabalalisa okubanzi, ihembe elifaneleka kancane ukugqoka ikhola evulekile ngaphandle kokubopha. Ngikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi ikhola enezinkinobho kufanele ihlale igqokwe nenkinobho; kungenjalo, kungani ukhethe it?
Uyakhumbula ukuphawula kwehembe elimhlophe enkulumweni eyisihluthulelo, ngoba kunengqondo futhi kuzomelana novivinyo lwesikhathi. Omagazini bemfashini abanakuba njalo. Okuningi okuqukethwe okubona kuyo kulezi zinsuku kungase kungabi iseluleko esingcono kakhulu sokugqoka ihembe elisemthethweni elifanelekile endaweni yomsebenzi wendabuko…noma, ngokuvamile, noma yikuphi ngaphandle kwekhasi labo.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Nov-06-2021